| Location | Preston, Lancashire |
| Age | 33 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 18/12/1961 |
| Date of Death | 10/10/1995 |
| Visitors | 2,549 since 07/01/2008 |
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Jackie Marie Rhodes
10 October 1995
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I would like to do this memorial in memory of my wonderful mum who was very strong through all her treatment in trying to get rid of her cancer, my mum had two daughters me and my sister Sarah who she adored very much. My mum was a single parent and worked as an office clerk to bring in money to pay the bills and also feed us unfortunately she was made redundant although she was upset and worried about how she would manage the bills she always put on a brave face for us, then in 2005 our world fell to pieces she was diagnosed with cancer she had a lump on her foot and when this was removed it was discovered that it was cancerous she went on to having more treatment this included having her toes amputated but this did not deter her from having a night out she would call her friend up and say come on we are having fun so she did she went out on her crutches and danced the night away on them she was very courageous, she then found out a few days after this that the cancer had actually spread and she would have to have her foot amputated she still smiled we helped her and tried to stay strong but it came to blows when she was admitted into a hospice and we were taken into a quiet room me then 13 years and my sister then 10 years and we was told she would never pull through and she only had days to live, oh mum our world fell apart from that day my heart was truly broken I didn’t know what to say only is there no way of getting a healer in to help as silly as it sounds now it was the only way I could help my mum.
I tried to do the best I could when she was alive trying to fight the cancer I slept on the sofa cause she couldn’t get upstairs to bed so her bed was brought down to the living room and I stayed sleeping there night in night out in case she needed me to help her.
My mum was an inspiration to both me and my sister and also all our friends they adored her and am convinced they only came round to call for us so that they could see my mum.
Time has gone by now and things have very much changed my mum now has 3 grandsons and a granddaughter Joshua, Jordan, Darren and Emma and I know that she will be up there looking down on each and every one of them.
RIP my best friendXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
THANK YOU FOR LEAVING A MEMORIAL PICTURE AND LIGHTING A CANDLE IN REMEMBERANCE OF MY MUM IT MEANS SO MUCH TO ME.
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Mum you were a very special person always smiling always fun,
everyone that you knew loved you through and through,
its been so long since we last saw you,
but we keep on fighting through the days without you,
When you was suddenly taken from us days and nights seemed very long,
I know for sure that one day,
we will and shall meet again,
until that day we will keep strong for you my mum you were my best friend.
Love you forever and always
Clare. Xx
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God came down and took your hand to lead you to his wonderland,
On the way he spoke in your ear this world is not right for you my dear,
Up above you met your dad this made you very glad,
As you sat there day and night wondering why your dad went that night,
For now you know he was up above ready to show you his everlasting love.
RIP MumX
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Angels
A nother year has gone by,
N ot a moment go's by that we don't,
G reive for you my
E ternal light, you showed us
L ove and happiness and each time we cry
S ure enough we still know that you r by our side
Merry Angel Christmas mum I love you dearly and miss you so so much xxxxxxxx
mum
Hello mum sorry its been along time since ive logged in to say hello, ive been very busy helping others like you used to
Mum i really do miss you but i thank you from the bottom of my heart for visiting me just the other night while i was led in bed it was lovelly even tho you kept interupting me as i spoke i know you did that to prove i wasnt imagining it
Please mum i have a HUGE favour to ask from you please will you watch over Macheala as she has recently lost her baby he was called Ollie and he was 6 mths old he had the most striking smile he was gorgeous but unfortunately he was murdered by his dad it saddens me mum i can feel Michaelas hurt its not very nice so as well as watching over mum please can you wrap your angel wings around baby Ollie if you havnt done already i know what you are like i bet you have your own kindergarden up there dont you lol
Until i log on again i must say i love you with all my heart and miss you so so so much oh and dad is cutting back alot on the alcohol abuse im so proud of him but its a few yrs too late huh
I love you gazillions please if you get time would you come and visit me again?
Loves and heaps of kisses
xxx ♥♥♥ xxx
love you mum
every day i think of you and wonder what you would be up too,
i look at your picture and smile and then i suddenly cry for a while
but i know that here you are by my side and here to stay
my children say they see you at times and i can feel a smile,
for i know that you are watching over them as you would do if you were here now
i love you mum and so do the kids
you may not be here in life but your remembered all the time
for all the good you did for folk
it payed off cause they love you loads
i love you more each day and wished you was still here today
you were to good for here so god decided that you would like to be there with him
there are no remorse hatred just sad that your not here living a life with us
God rest your soul
love you mum xxxx
•♥♥♥ Happy St. Patrick's Day ♥♥♥•
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When dawn's first light turned into day,
Who knew an angel would soon call me away,
And though I did get to say Good-Bye,
I leave three more things to help you get by;
I leave courage, that you might see
your heart can rebuild a world without me
I leave you faith, that you might believe the
spirit will survive no matter how much we grieve
And I leave you love, to comfort you in it's healing
embrace until we meet again, in another place....
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