
| Location | Preston, Lancashire |
| Age | 33 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 18/12/1961 |
| Date of Death | 10/10/1995 |
| Visitors | 1,699 since 07/01/2008 |
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Jackie Marie Rhodes
10 October 1995
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I would like to do this memorial in memory of my wonderful mum who was very strong through all her
treatment in trying to get rid of her cancer, my mum had two daughters me and my sister Sarah who
she adored very much. My mum was a single parent and worked as an office clerk to bring in money to
pay the bills and also feed us unfortunately she was made redundant although she was upset and
worried about how she would manage the bills she always put on a brave face for us, then in 2005 our
world fell to pieces she was diagnosed with cancer she had a lump on her foot and when this was
removed it was discovered that it was cancerous she went on to having more treatment this included
having her toes amputated but this did not deter her from having a night out she would call her
friend up and say come on we are having fun so she did she went out on her crutches and danced the
night away on them she was very courageous, she then found out a few days after this that the cancer
had actually spread and she would have to have her foot amputated she still smiled we helped her and
tried to stay strong but it came to blows when she was admitted into a hospice and we were taken
into a quiet room me then 13 years and my sister then 10 years and we was told she would never pull
through and she only had days to live, oh mum our world fell apart from that day my heart was truly
broken I didn’t know what to say only is there no way of getting a healer in to help as silly as
it sounds now it was the only way I could help my mum.
I tried to do the best I could when she was alive trying to fight the cancer I slept on the sofa
cause she couldn’t get upstairs to bed so her bed was brought down to the living room and I stayed
sleeping there night in night out in case she needed me to help her.
My mum was an inspiration to both me and my sister and also all our friends they adored her and am
convinced they only came round to call for us so that they could see my mum.
Time has gone by now and things have very much changed my mum now has 3 grandsons and a
granddaughter Joshua, Jordan, Darren and Emma and I know that she will be up there looking down on
each and every one of them.
RIP my best friendXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
THANK YOU FOR LEAVING A MEMORIAL PICTURE AND LIGHTING A CANDLE IN REMEMBERANCE OF MY MUM IT MEANS SO
MUCH TO ME.
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Mum you were a very special person always smiling always fun,
everyone that you knew loved you through and through,
its been so long since we last saw you,
but we keep on fighting through the days without you,
When you was suddenly taken from us days and nights seemed very long,
I know for sure that one day,
we will and shall meet again,
until that day we will keep strong for you my mum you were my best friend.
Love you forever and always
Clare. Xx
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God came down and took your hand to lead you to his wonderland,
On the way he spoke in your ear this world is not right for you my dear,
Up above you met your dad this made you very glad,
As you sat there day and night wondering why your dad went that night,
For now you know he was up above ready to show you his everlasting love.
RIP MumX
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Hello mum
so many years have passed by,
but i stay here and have a cry,
cause mum you was my best friend,
and friendship shall never end,
as i sit here and think of you,
you are my rock my one true friend,
and nomatter what my love will never end.
I LOVE YOU MUMXXXXXXXXXXX
hello mum
its been a while mum since ive wrote something to you, ive put a scan picture of your 3rd grandchild in your photos for you i keep getting the question asked if its two im that big mum but only you will know that until my next scan oh mum i miss you so much i wish i could just talk to you instead of writing but its better than nothing, i hope you are looking after every one up there especially the children i bet your having a whale of a time up there any way i just want to say how much i love and miss you ill speak to you soon mum.
Love and hugs and plenty of kisses
ClareXx
hi jackie xxxxxxxxxxxxx
A thousand times we needed you
A thousand times we cried
If love alone could have saved you
you never would have died
A heart of gold stopped beating
two twinkling eyes closed to rest
God broke our hearts to prove he only took the best
HAPPY EASTER JACKIE XXXXX
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mum
It only seems like yestoday when you passed away and every day i miss you. as you proberbly know mum but im expecting another baby. I hope your taking care of everyone up there with you like you used to down here especially the children, we love you mum lots and lots.
Always in my thoughts and in my heart.
star
I stood beside a hill
Smooth with new-laid snow,
A single star looked out
From the cold evening glow.
There was no other creature
That saw what I could see--
I stood and watched the evening star
As long as it watched me
somewhere way up high in the sky,
there is a star that shines so bright,
that star you see is of jackie,
brimming down upon her family,
do not cry, do not hide,
for we all will be together someday.
RIP
My mum
when i was young life seemed streight forward,
until my bestfriend my mum become poorly,
you see she had cancer and was dying,
but she still kept up fighting,
until one day when i was 13 she sadly passed away,
then a shock came when i turned 15 i was pregnant,
i was scared i was frieghtened but i just kept fighting,
then i had my gorgeous baby.
life was hard life was tough but i just thought of my mum,
looking down from way up high,
smiling and helping me with my life as it passed by,
now im 25 and studying for a career you see,
its not yet over here,
i will stay strong like my mum did and look forward
for my dream to begin.
RIP Mum
You are so missed
To a very special lady , although i never met you i feel as if i had known you a life time your Daughter Clare is a very special friend to me and you would be so proud of her .
Please take care of my Little Angel Ruby Who Passed 18.09.07
Thinking of u Always
Diane Chloe And our sleeping Angel Ruby Maites xxxx
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